Now we know the two critical mistakes we make when trying to make transformational changes in our lives.
Changes with the power and potential to eliminate your cognitive dissonance so your reality finally matches your dreams -- in dating, in relationships, in careers, and, most importantly, in happiness and life satisfaction.
Mistake #1: We won’t let go of our big Bags of Shit.
For better or for worse, we were brainwashed during the first 17 years or so of our lives.
Certain beliefs were hardwired into your brain, and they are completely false.
These beliefs force you to continue misinterpreting situations and prevent you from enjoying your life.
Mistake #2: We’re stuck in the first 3 levels of change
So because of Mistake #1, we seek out ways to improve ourselves and our circumstances via personal development.
But the techniques, tactics, routines, and tools simply lead us on a wild goose chase for the next insight, the next how-to, and the next breakthrough piece of advice.
In reality, for monumental, life-changing, transformational results… you must focus on fixing your beliefs and identity.
Everything else -- the books, the habits, the “expert advice” -- will only lead to disappointment.
Here was the flash I finally realized.
After uncovering these two mistakes, I began to notice a problematic pattern.
Essentially, there are two ways you can try to deliberately shift your deep, unconscious beliefs to help make becoming your “dream self” effortless.
The first way is by working one-on-one with a professional psychotherapist or master practitioner of neuro-linguistic programming.
This approach is effective. And, if you stick with it for at least six weeks, you’ll more than likely start experiencing profound results in your life.
The only problem, of course, is accessibility. Because I’m not talking about “life coaches” with internet certifications.
I’m talking about real, trained, experienced masters of the unconscious mind -- who, more often than not, charge hundreds (or thousands) of dollars per hour.
Which leads most people to the second most available method for achieving internal transformations: seminars.
Because compared to a high-ticket Master Practitioner of NLP, seminars are much more affordable. But they’re “flash in the pan” solutions, that rarely result in long-lasting change.
Think about it.
Going to one of these seminars is a lot like making a new year resolutions -- each event produces a similar psychological impact.
You’re excited at first. But, after a while, the excitement fades away and you’re back to your old self.
In fact, I even began noticing this “fizzle-out” effect with my own seminars.
I used to pull a little trick at my in-person events.
I’d randomly choose one guy from the crowd, pull him aside, and take him to lunch. We’d have a one-on-one consultation, ranging from his style to the topics we’re talking about today.
And I made each of these guys an offer:
“Send me an email 90 days after taking and implementing this advice, and I’ll continue “virtually mentoring” you.”
(Kind of like the opportunity you’re about to hear about, but nowhere near as comprehensive.)
Can you guess how many of these guys took me up on this?
Zero.
You see, here’s the problem:
Seminars, workshops, events, or one-time consultations don’t have the psychological capabilities of reprogramming your unconscious beliefs.
The reality is this takes time and skilled guidance.
Which led me to think of the opportunity I’m sharing with you today.
You see, after realizing this issue, I thought to myself:
What if I could create an event with the power of one-on-one coaching, but made even more affordable than seminars?
A event that took you by the hand and showed you how to take back the control of your mind, become aware of your harmful beliefs, and finally unload your “Bag of Shit.”
And then, showed you how to reprogram your beliefs so you could stop mentally masturbating on the self-help hamster wheel; finally start living with purpose, conviction, and happiness; and develop the right mindset to thrive in all areas of life.
Earlier this year, I started thinking of a way to bring this to you.
And today, your invitation is finally here....