Day One: Awareness
On Friday, we will gather in a beautiful location overlooking the water.
You will be in an environment full of likeminded people who you will get to know on a very deep level over the next few days.
These people will also get to know you and support you more intimately and powerfully than most of your best friends and even family…
The experience will start with a high-level overview of the way your brain works, with a model I’ve never presented before.
We will then move into the diagnostic part of the event — a multi-disciplinary, bottom-up analysis of your operating system.
I will personally give you the “software” to take a personalized inventory of your own operating system, so you can identify the obstacle standing in the way of your best, most confident, most charismatic, most true self.
With this new understanding, we will begin a series of intimate and group exercises designed to help see yourself as an outside observer may view you.
The room at this event will become a microcosm of the real world, and you will run up against your own limiting beliefs. Some will surprise you.
We’ll also put together a personalized fear inventory, taking a deep dive to find the fears that exist underneath the fears:
Your core existential anxiety.
From there, we’ll look at how you operate in high-stakes social environments, and begin to mirror the way you show up in your relationships.
You’ll walk away with an understanding of your weaknesses, as well as your strengths.
And at the end of day one, we will end with a map of your false self.
This is the “you” that was created by societal conditioning and the intentions of your parents.
Stripping this will be the focus of the next days.
Day Two: Emptying Out
This is a big day. A powerful day.
I can’t share the exercises with you ahead of time, but I will give you the thinking behind them…
Most of us know what we are trying to change.
Yet despite reading books and setting intentions, our issues always seem to stick with us.
This is because they didn’t enter our system intellectually.
They came in somatically, often through feelings and emotions.
We’ll start day two with activities meant to get you out of your head, and into your body, where all your buttons are, where the parts of yourself you can’t always control are.
From there, you will break up into different small groups, depending on what you are working on within yourself.
You will then be personally guided through a series of powerful exercises designed to quarantine your virus, and reboot your operating system.
It will be a very intense day, and will end with an experience that will have many of you releasing trapped feelings and emotions that you never even knew you had inside of you.
You’ll be surprised at what comes out of you.
And on Saturday night, you will take great care of yourself.
You will be raw and fragile, most likely feeling lighter, and ready to fill up with the new you tomorrow.
Day Three: Filling Up
This is going to be an exciting day.
On Friday, we opened the wound, and brought it to your awareness.
On Saturday, we healed the wound.
And on the final day, we begin the process of living a wound-free life.
You will learn how to step into your new identity, your true self, for the day, and forever.
You will learn actionable insights for self care on every level: physical, psychological, sexual, spiritual, and intellectual.
You will boost your emotional intelligence and resilience, and strengthen your frame and reality.
You will receive a whole suite of tools for when you are overwhelmed, or not in self-care.
You will take a deep dive into the discovery of your passion, your core values, your integrity, and your meaning — and how to live in alignment every single day.
You will undergo a deep hypnotic induction designed to solidify and enhance this new awakening.
We will literally rewire your neural circuitry, and reinforce the new productive patterns — instead of the old, automatic, and destructive ones.
And we will celebrate the powerfully self-realized individual that is YOU, <Name>.
Your true self and who you are and have been all along underneath all of your bad programming and false limiting beliefs…
The H.A.V.E is meant to bring out the real you, and make sure you are living your best life as the most authentic and passionate you, every single day.